Over the years, my social calendar has changed dramatically. In past years, I would receive invitations for store openings, fashion shows, parties and fundraisers that I attended with my New York City social set and my Junior League friends. Now, as a burgeoning animal author and Pet Socialite, I receive even more invitations to be present at happenings throughout the United States. And, with the beginning of the summer season, I am always excited because each day, in my mailbox, there is always an avalanche of invitations and notices for truly interesting pet events. These happenings include birthday, garden, tea and costume parties; major league baseball games; yappy hours; dog walks and parades; and a few fundraisers.

Recently, I hosted a fundraiser—a doggie tea party held at a very swanky hotel in Toronto. It was a smashing event that lasted one hour and a half (a perfect amount of time before the animals get agitated). The organization that held the party was very happy with my performance, the amount of money that they raised and the number of attendees that commented on the wonderful time that they had. But, as I reflect on this great event, I remember the first thought I had when the party was over, was that I couldn’t wait to go upstairs to my hotel room and wash my hands with lots of soap and scalding, hot water.

So, as I write, or in this case, speak to you all, please take my advice. Before going to any pet event, give your dog a bath or clean him up well. Think about it. If you want to make a good impression, you will always want to look, and I do hope, smell your best. So why shouldn’t you want the same experience for your dog? When asked about why I chose my new breed of dog, I tell people that I wanted a dog that nobody had-my vanity (don’t hate me)—and of course, the English Toy Spaniel fit my lifestyle pawfectly, including the fact that it is a breed that requires light grooming. After having American Cockers and a Golden Retriever, I wanted a dog that could very easily be washed in a hotel bathroom and required almost no professional grooming.

When any of my dogs make an appearance, are my companions at any event, or visit the homes of friends and relatives, they are always clean and well-groomed. Why? Because not only do I care what people think of us, but I want my dogs to be clean, comfortable and healthy. The days of giving your dog a bath once a year are over, folks. So, please maintain your dog’s hygiene like you do your own, regularly.

Many people don’t realize that a regular grooming routine provides you as a pet owner with the opportunity to examine your dog’s unique physique. By maintaining a grooming regimen, you can check for lumps, bumps and any unusual odors. Additionally, brushing and combing will keep his fur in good shape, and it will also help keep your home tidy. No shedding on and no unpleasant odors emulating from the furniture. A well-groomed dog is pleasant to be around, especially if you sleep with your pooch, like I do. He will receive more attention from everyone, because he looks cute and is clean. He can be petted without an immediate trip to the washroom, and, of course, the pettor will play with him longer, giving them both more pleasure.

Now, it is true that some breeds have natural conditions that cause them to retain a doggy smell. For example, Basset Hounds have a tendency to smell a bit more objectionable than other dog breeds because they have oily skin which does pick up dirt. Then, of course, there is their hanging ears, and, like cockers, they too can be susceptible to wax and debris build-up, causing an odor, eventually leading to an ear infection. But we must not forget about the grooming challenge of high-maintenance dogs, like poodles, Maltese and Afghan Hounds, whose owners practically have to kill themselves to maintain their dogs’ coat. But, isn’t that par for the course when you select your breed? The bathing, the brushing, combing, etc. or, in some cases, the expense of having it done for you.

Anyhoo, getting back to the topic at hand… your dog’s appearance says a lot about you and how you treat your dog. It says that you care about yourself, your dog and how your dog impacts those around you. So, before going out on the town for a dog walk, a dog party at friend’s or an afternoon at the ballgame, clean up your pooch.